I want to spend my next few posts talking bout relationship issues. These are the things that me and my friends sit back and talk about that get my brain waves flowing. So, I figured what better way to get into the topic of relationships, than to talk about seduction...the fire that starts almost all romantic flames.
Now when I say seduction, I bet most of your minds are going straight towards SEX.Well, i guess that naturally comes with the territory, but when I speak of seduction, I'm talking about all the things that lead up to a sexual attraction. I'm talking a power that captivates all of your senses and makes you remember and embrace being a woman/man.
With that being said, there are two sides to the complex art of seduction. There's the seducer and the seduced.
The seduced, are what I refer to as the victim or prey of the seducer. This is the person who is at the receiving end of the seducer's meticulously sought out conquest. An overtly insecure person makes for the perfect victim. They are oftentimes unsure about themselves, so it makes it easier for someone to come in and tell them not only who they are, but also what they want, and how and where they can find it. This is the person who is looking for self validation. The seducer has been granted the talent of detecting what type of validation the seduced is seeking and is able to serve their victim's dreams up on a "too good to be true" silver platter.
The seducer has already sought the seduced out, consciencely observing every insecurity, gathering enough information to determine their game plan before actually making an official, first encounter. They not only examine what the seduced seeks in a potential partner, but also what he/she may lack in their journey of becoming a "fulfilled" person(I'm talking about the person the seduced seeks to become). The seducer takes notice to the things the seduced may believe "complete" him/her and they possess the ability to manipulate that person into believing that they are the only one with the qualities needed to fill that void.
When they have part down...that's when they attack!!!!
Ok now, I know everything I just said may sound mean and evil natured, but not all seduction is malevolent. In fact, most of it is done with a positive purpose...I'll get into that later tho.
TBC....
Nope not mean at all!!!!!!!
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